Guys seem to make the same mistake over and over again with women and keep getting failing results than wonder why. I am going to tall you the 5 reasons guys mess up the first date right now.

Do not let her pick where to go for the first date.

If you let her pick where to go on the date she will mark you off as a loser because it shows a few things. The first thing it shows is that you are not a leader, the second thing, it makes you appear like a yes man that is willing to kiss up to her.

Do not stay at the same place to long.

Move the chick to at least two locations when you get together with her because that gets her comfortable with you. The first place you walk into with her you are just getting to know each other, but the second place you wall into she is your girlfriend. Trust me if she likes you she will feel like that.

Not getting physical with her.

Some guys think that they score points with the girl by not getting physical with her. They are dead wrong. If a girl goes out with you and likes you she wants to get physical. Most of the time women are not going to make the first move, they will wait for you and are actually testing you out to see if you are man enough to make the first move. If you do not make the first move she will go out with another guy the next night who will give her what she wants and get physical with her.

Do not let her know you like her.

Women do not want a man that is easy. Sounds familiar. She wants a challenge and if you are not a challenge than she will leave to find a challenge to her. If you are telling her how much you like her on the first date that seems desperate. While it may work sometimes, it will fail most of the time. You have to push and pull her away from you to create attraction. Never tell her you like her on that first date.

Do not call her to soon

If the date goes good wait at least a day to call her. If you are calling the next day she knows that she got you. If you wait at least a day or two you can see if she will call you and find out if she is interested in you.