I am going to tell you what makes women attracted to men. Its quiet simple, you need to be a man. Women seek out a few things by instinct, like power, protection, leadership and security. Now those can be broken down in many different ways. One of the reasons a lot of guys try to get material things is because they know women want that type of security. That is the security of having a comfortable life. Women do not car about the material thing in a direct way, they seek the security of it indirectly. What I am saying is that most women will not talk to a guy just because he has a nice house but if they are already talking to two guys and one has a nice house that she can use and possibly own she will go with that guy to get his house.

In order to get the girl and keep her you need more than a nice house, car and clothes. That stuff can catch her but she will walk away once she is done using you for your money. A woman wants a man to be her leader. Women want to follow men. Most women will tell you that they want a man that is sure of himself. Guys should not second guess themselves because of what a woman might think. A woman needs to conform to your way of thinking if you think you are her man and she is your woman. Do not be wishy washy with your woman. Be stern in your believes. She will love you for that. If you play the so called nice guy role you in essence are being her girlfriend or worst yet one of her guy friends that hang around hoping to get some pity sex from time to time.

Women do not say what they want but their react to what they want. A woman will say she wants a nice guy but never dates them. The type of guy she dates is the type of guy she wants. I have seen women who were happily married to weak cowards. I can honestly tell you that is what they wanted. Some women like to take the lead and run things. They know that they can only try that on certain type of men. If you date a woman who makes more money than you, she should pay for the majority of expenses as she would expect of you if you make more money. Women play a double standards game where they want chivalry when its convenient to them but equal rights to make more money than you and still expect the average guy to pay for date and if you say something about that than they say that you are taking them on a date because you are trying to get sex, so does that imply that they are selling sex?

As long as you stand for your believes and take the role of the leader of the relationship, most women will find you attractive. Its more of your positive attitude towards life than your house, car and cloth that will attract and keep a quality woman to you.