So your girl is not into you anymore.

You are trying to find out why your girlfriend is not into you. I am going to give you 3 reasons why she is not into you. They are pretty straight forward and will help you keep your girlfriend or get your ex girlfriend back.

The first thing is that she does not want to have sex with you or you have just a little bit of sex.

If your girlfriend is not giving you sex that is a bad sign. Chances are she will be leaving you soon. She may even be cheating on you at this very moment. Women try to control men with sex. So if she wants you to behave and do certain things, than she will manipulate you with sex. Now the irony in all of this is, if you fall into the sexual manipulation games that she is playing than she will in reality lose attraction towards you. Women use their bodies and feminine charms to try to control men because that is what women think they want and when they do get a man under control with their bodies they lose attraction for him.

This is a catch 22 because your girlfriend does not want to lose attraction for you. She wants to build attraction towards you. But it is natural in a woman's nature to test a man. All women will test you. She really wants you to put her in her place and pass the test. If you fail the test she will eventually leave you or cheat on you and treat you like a door mate. When you woman does not want sex from you and your sex life has pretty much dried up you need to rekindle the romance. You have to think back to the guy that you were that she fell for. Think back to when you first meet your girlfriend how you behaved. Think back to how you acted around women when dating. Once you could get back to you single days cool style, she will notice that and start to give you some good loving again.

The second reason your girlfriend is not into you is if she stopped answering and responding to your calls and texts.

Pretty much that should communicate everything. If a woman has hours on end to chat it up with friends about meaningless stuff but cant respond to her own boyfriend that you tell you that you are being taken for granted. Women like to be chased but do not want to lead. So you have to balance things out. You have to play her cat and mouse game. Call and text her with flirt and mysterious stuff so that she can feel good in participating in the conversations and the back and forth with you. Guy you have to understand that the chase is never over. Women want to be chased, captured and kept, if you do not do it than someone else will.

When calling or texting your girl. Send her flirty messages like how is my apple bottom beautiful or my voluptuous dessert cake or cream pie doing? That is going to put a smile on her face and entice her to answer you. Another cool thing you can do is to send silly text messages like you wont believe what I see at the mall. You get what I am saying, women hate boring things, so do not be boring.  If you send the type of text messages that I am telling you to send that you will get her to respond to you.

The third thing that she may do if she is not interested in you is she will focus on school and work but not on you.

If your woman has a legitimate goal as far as her school or work than you should support her with it. Now the main thing to do is to be cool. If your girlfriend is focused on school and work than give her space to do so. Most guys mess up by acting jealous about their girlfriend not spending enough time and focusing on them enough. When you do that you appear to be needy and clingy. No woman wants to be with a desperate man. So when she is busy just step back and let her do her thing. Right now is the time to allow her to pursue her goals. Just be cool about it and let the things fall into place.

When you notice that she is just not that into you be cool about it. Give your girlfriend or wife some space. Women like men who are leaders and not followers. If you fail her test and fall into her traps you become her follower and she does not really want to lead anyone. Women do not like easy sex. If you are always available for sex for her than what challenge are you? You are basically like every other man out there that would sleep with her anytime. She wants to work for your approval. She wants to work for your sex. Think about some of the things that I shared with you and put them into action.

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